when will he ever learn?

My cousin has been kicked out of school, failed in his SPM, got involved in fights, got involved in drugs, been arrested, been in and out of jobs, been robbed a few times, owed money to loan sharks and now he is cheated out of RM40K by his friend...

And he is only 21 years old.

Only one month older than me. But he is so not "sang seng".

When will he ever learn?

When will he realized that family will always be there for him, instead of his stupid idotic friends who only know how to take advantage of him? When will he learn that life is filled with scums who will only lead him to the wrong path? When will he learn money do not come easily? When will he realize how much trouble and hurt he had cause his parents, his sister and us, his extended family?

When will he GROW UP?

If he keeps going on like this, I think even the family will not care about him anymore. Hopefully God can knock some sense into his head as soon as possible.